It’s common to feel fear when it comes to being visible in your business, whether that’s posting something online, sending a message, or even handing over your business card. You’re not alone if you’ve hesitated, overthought, or delayed.
That fear isn’t random. For many women, it runs deep. Generationally deep. There’s many theories that we are carrying the energetic imprint of ancestors who were persecuted for speaking up or simply being seen.
There’s even scientific evidence to prove this, that emotions that we hold within all our cells are passed down through the generations.
It’s called Epigenetics.
Then there’s how we do things today in the business world, which, let’s be honest, has largely been shaped by masculine energy. That ‘hustle hard, do more, push through mentality’. But deep down most of us know that’s not the only way in fact it’s a very disconnected way. And for many of us, it’s not the right way at all.
I’m all for pushing hard and pushing through things.. I mean, if lifting heavy teaches us anything it’s this right? Even I’ve found it a bizarre sensation to have to ‘relax’ into more feminine moves, if I’m completely honest.
Feminine energy, by contrast, looks like receiving, being guided by intuition, empathy, and working with your body instead of against it. It doesn’t mean you do less, it means you do it differently. In a way that’s sustainable and honest with yourself.
When women (actually all humans), learn to allow themselves to receive whether it’s compliments, help, rest, money, it changes how they show up in their business.
It changes how they lead and trust themselves..
Taking small, consistent steps (just like improving anything in the clients body), builds trust in yourself. (I wrote more about how that applies to sharing your work in this post here).
And support matters. Whether that’s a mentor, a program, being accountable to delivering something or just knowing someone else has been through it, it all helps.
Just know that you don’t need to show up in a way that feels disconnected just because that’s how others do it.
Even males benefit when they tap into their feminine energy. It’s not about gender. it’s about balance.
I go deeper into this in Episode of the podcast.
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