I recently opened an email from a colleague of mine in which he said he knew why we all exercise and it’s glaringly obvious (to him), and it’s because we all want to get laid! He might not be far from the truth but I can’t believe someone said it!
When you think about deep down the reasons that you exercise do you honestly think it’s because you want to get laid?
I’m going to be sexist here… I do think men are highly motivated by money and sex (and only money ’cause it will get them more sex – or admiration and respect, and therefore have chicks wanting to sleep with them which pretty much means the same thing, no?)
So do we ALL (guys and girls) just want to get laid?
I know sometimes, (depending upon my mood) I find it offensive that that’s what guys think about all the time, but then sometimes I also think ‘the poor buggers’, ‘they can’t help it’. I guess it makes them kind of simple and easy to read, but therefore easy to please (the one you are in a relationship with anyway).
Too controversial for you? Have I hit a nerve? Aren’t I just telling the truth? Well why do you exercise…?
So why do I exercise?
..well to be honest of course I exercise to look great naked. (I have to say I do also exercise as it keeps me sane – Or slightly less psycho…haha). I don’t care how skinny you are, some people still don’t look any good in a bikini. You know it.
Now I’m not about being that critical of other peoples bodies I think all people (especially females) need and deserve to feel gorgeous naked and with clothes on. REGARDLESS of their size. Self esteem is soooo undervalued and so important in life, if you ask me.
Now, if you are a girl reading this I want you to know you can start to feel like that NOW!
Don’t wait until you have the perfect body (I’ll discuss the difference in my headspace of when I was fat vs. thin in the next email), but I can promise you that the biggest ‘leap’ forward you can take towards looking HOT naked is to change your mind set. NOW.
I know that may not sound logical or make sense but you really have to try and ‘get it’ if you don’t get it already. Confidence is incredibly attractive and you do lose 5 kg automatically when you stand up straight.
This new 28 day program of mine which covers exercise, nutrition and most importantly mindset should be called, ‘Look Hot Naked’ but instead it’s called 28 Days to rapid results’. Click this link to claim your spot and make the most of the rest of your January now www.28dayrapidresults.com
and I’ll see you on the lean, ‘Sexy’ side,
which could be in the next few minutes depending upon what you tell yourself 😉



1. I never (ok very, VERY rarely) tell myself I’m fat – anymore. I used to when I was post baby, but that’s another story. Never, ever, this is sooo critical to you getting what you want from your body. Try this – whenever you hear yourself say these things to yourself, you are honestly going to get more of it so stop, acknowledge what needs to be done, distract yourself from thinking like that and get on with it.
If you are having sleep problems, whether you are not able to fall asleep, wake up too often, don’t feel well-rested when you wake up in the morning, or simply want to improve the quality and quantity of your sleep, try as many of the following techniques below as possible (then look at addressing nutrition deficiencies – low levels of magnesium in the body also contribute to poor sleep patterns – if you are going to supplement with magnesium make sure it is ‘chelated’. For a magnesium I personally use and recommend,
Well the reality is getting results requires a slightly different approach for everyone, but some things, like the mental approach to change and implementing habits I’ve found from coaching clients and observing my own self talk, is similar regardless of the special diet or exercise regime you are asked to follow.
2 a. It’s not fair that all the other girls eat drink xxxxxx (insert your favourite food or drink here) and they ARE skinny, I must just have xxxxxx (faulty genes, a slow thyroid or insert excuse here).